Well, since I haven't posted in a long time.

I be double-postin' today.

I doubt anybody will be reading this anyway.

Ah well, it's just some food for thought.

Ever thought of the reasons for conflicts, pain, sadness, war, unhappiness, destruction of friendships?

One thing I realise is that.

The only thing that causes these are just simply petty reasons.

And no, I'm not trying to be a guru here.

It's just my two-cents.

Want an example?

People misunderstood you, and now you're arguing with them.

Reason? You don't bother to clarify(apathy), or they don't really care(apathy) even if you did bother.

Petty, no?

Your friends leave you because you're a dick/bitch.

Reason? Someone has spread rumours of you being an ass.

You don't feel loved.

Reason? You don't get what you thought you would, it's not up to your expectations.

For example, you wanted that guy to say this romantic thing, but he didn't, he said something else. And for that, you say that you don't feel loved.

Seeing all this, it's all seriously just the same damn reason.

Everyone is selfish.

It's human nature, yeah.

But everyone should make an effort to get rid of their bad nature.

I'm not telling you to change yourself totally, just eradicate the bad things.

Well, moving on.

Here's a way to see that humans judge people as soon as they see or hear about them.

Since it's freedom of speech here, I just wanna describe a person whom I think is the easiest to get along. Take note: It's for me, not you, not everyone. Everyone has differing opinions.

Let's think of an example.

So, think about this guy.

Guy A :

He is smart, sociable, outgoing as well as charismatic.

He is able to grip the attention of most people.

Why? He is kind, offers to help anyone or everyone, a real gentleman.

To add on, he is funny.

Now, what do you think of him?

I leave that to you.

From there, I add something.

His appearance.

If I said, he looks fat.

Then, I add on, he is rather short, say, 162, maybe?

In addition, he has buck tooth and he is bespectacled.

Now, what do you think of him?

Can you honestly readily accept him?

Well, if you can, congratulations, you're a great person.

It's the same, everyone is quick to judge.

No matter how great a personality a person has, judgement really kills.

However, if you switch it around.

He has a bad personality, and good looks. <- Guy B

People will still like him.

Anyway, the number of people who will prefer guy B will be significantly higher than guy A.

Well, that's about judging.

And, I guess I'm lazy to continue typing.

So I shall continue on the next post.

Hopefully, there will be a next post.